finally got the server disconnects to stop.ran a program called temp file cleaner,by old timer,c-cleaner,and windows disc clean up.cleaning out the registry ,of all the temp files and junk,cleared out about 7 gigs of junk.now it just occasionally does the ctd.theres a mod conflict somewhere,guessing one of the sound mods or battle assistant,they seem to be the usual culprits.almost wanna say its battle assistant,as it seems to only do it when i switch arty views.anyway,its not perfect,but its alot better than it was.give those things a try and see if they help.oh,btw,always make a system restore point on your computer before you do this,on the off chance you do something wrong,so you can restore it back to where it was.